I have been
thinking a lot about my mother these last few days. I used some of the words from a talk by Elder
Packer from the last conference in one of my spiritual thoughts this last
week. Quoting from his talk “I have come
to know that faith is a real power, not just an expression of belief. There are
few things more powerful than the faithful prayers of a righteous mother.” The thought of mom knelling and praying in
her room came into my mind. I’m sure she
was praying for me. She didn’t have a
lot she could do to control me, but she could pray. I also remember that she would bear her
testimony every fast day. I think Alice
and maybe Van can remember this. I know
Alice and I were embarrassed that she would get up every month. She again could not do a lot but she could
bear her testimony. I know now that was
the beginning of my testimony. I know
more than once or twice I had to wipe tears from my eyes as she bore her
testimony. She had a profound influence
in my life, maybe more than her other children.
When Van was on his mission and Alice was at BYU, it was just mom and
me. Often she would get home from work
tired and would take me down to Skaggs at the 5 points mall. They had a little snack counter and we would
eat hot dogs. She probably didn’t like
them but I did. She worked hard and was
getting along in years. She was probably
around 57 or 58. I know Alice always
thought she made her do a lot of the house work and she probably did because
she was so tired. She never complained
and was always faithful in her callings as a visiting teacher. Later after we were married and she came to
live with us first on Quince then on 13th East and finally on
Douglas. My wife loved Grandma Norman a
lot because if ever my wife and I were having a disagreement she would always
take Chris’ side. On one day we were driving
and my wife wanted me to stop the car and let her go into an insurance company
that had their offices in her father’s old family home on 3900 South. I was embarrassed that she would just walk in
and say can I look at this building it use to be where my father grew up and I
did not want to stop. Grandma Norman
said to me, “John what is your problem it is no foam off you beer.” Needless to say I stopped and my wife went
inside and they let her look around at the old Cornwall family home. That is just one example of her siding with
Chris. She was generous to a fault. Often she would volunteer our house for an
activity or she would agree that Chris or I would do something for someone
else. In my mind I can still here her
saying to me, “John you don’t feel that way.”
She visited Delle Edmonds as her visiting teacher and asked if there was
anything she could do for her. Delle
said well you could do my laundry. So Grandma
Norman brought her laundry home and did it.
She was very unselfish and thought that everyone should be the same. I admire her for the many things she taught
me by how she lived. She loved her kids
and grandkids, family was important to her.
So on this mother’s day I pay tribute to my mom Elizabeth Bader Norman
and thank my Heavenly Father for blessing me with such a great mom. And I thank her for praying for me and for
bearing her testimony every month. Much
love mom, your son John.